Monday, 7 April 2014

How To Dress For An Event - You Don’t Have To Be Naked To Look Hot

Today we are going to talk about dressing for an event. We have a platform on adsasa.com where people advertise events which are coming up. This is where many people are coming to find where they can go and hangout with their friends. One thing which stresses people especially women is how to look and please their partners. Another thing is when a lady doesn’t have a partner and has gone for hunting or to be hunted. One thing is that they try to look better than others. There is always a competition in this especially when you are targeting a certain man out there.

The same thing applies to men who like going for entertainment events as well as official events looking forward to meeting a lady who looks more attractive to them. They as well find trouble with choosing what to wear and how to look. Others end up calling their friends and asking what they should wear and so it is not a girly thing only. Now, there comes a lot of confusion when it comes to dressing for an occasion. This doesn’t matter whether it is going to be in a garden, restaurant, bar or in the beach. Below we are going to focus on things to consider when dressing for an event.

Factors to consider while dressing for an event

1.    Where is the Event?

This is a major thing to consider when you are invited to go attend an event. This is because it will determine which kind of clothes you are going to wear. For example if an event is going to be in a club then you need to find the appropriate clothes for that. If it is in a garden you just picture the day, the color, event time and season and decide what kind of a dress to wear.

2.    Who will be there?

This is one of the questions which you should ask yourself when you are planning to attend an event. There are events whereby it is only young people who are attending. There are others where girls decide to meet and talk girly stuff and men can decide to meet as boys and do their thing. Another type of an event may involve male and female of different age. Now this is where you have to include respect in your dressing and it should remain as that. This doesn’t mean you should respect some and leave others behind but always dress with and in respect.

3.    When is the event?

Well, this point and factor includes time and season. There are some events which are held during the day while others at night. However, weather is always there to bring good tiding of dressing or bad. This is because you need clothes which can protect you from cold on a cold season and if it is on a sunny season then you know what to wear.

You Don’t Have To Be Naked To Impress!

Here is the biggest point. Most ladies think that being naked will please men and they will end up falling in love with them. Sorry to say this, but men don’t love naked women but they lust at them and despise them later. You can dress smartly and look hot. Just pick on clothes which are not exposing your body. Leave cleavage alone! Actually you need something fitting not tight and not lose…..

There are some events whereby you are given a dressing code and most of them prefer well dressed people. Others leave you to choose what to wear. Some of these events are attended by guys who are older than us and it is always good to wear good clothes which can bring praise and reveal your beauty without showing how your thighs and chest are. This doesn’t matter where the event is. It might in the bars or in any other place and so you just have to do it.

I captured this article in one of the websites which was talking about Naija designer Obioma who says the following, “I consider my good looks first. I will also make sure that what I’m wearing fits me without exposing my body. Not because I’m married with three children. After all, most mothers do that, including some that are old enough to be called grand-mothers. My reason for not trying that is because it is not decent for a lady to expose her body, knowing that you will be addressed the way you are dressed. You will only attract the wrong kind of men if you do so.”

Another post from a different  a certain forum says, babyBB: my advice to ladies who thinks that exposing their bodies is civilization, these are the messages u pass to guys.
1) That u are cheap and any man can have u
2) That u are not a marriage material and therefore can not be a role model to ur children
3) That they can fleet with u but can never marry u
4) Since they have been used to ur unclothedness there is nothing else special abt u
5) That u are irresponsible
REMEMBER that no man wants to settle with a 2nd hand woman , remain chaste exposing ur body will attract men dat are irresponsible

Another person said, “Life is a battle over lust for men and boys. I only ask that you don't give aide to the other side.”


I don’t understand where girls and women in general got the idea of walking naked to show they are beautiful. If you ask men they will actually tell you that is not a kind of a lady to marry. One person wrote and said hot chics are to have fun with but cute chics are the best wife materials. What he meant according to his explanation is that cute ladies are always decent but these beautiful and hot chics thinks everyone want them and even if they are left by the man a day cannot end without finding another one. Finally such ladies are used anyhow and when the time of marriage comes there is no man who wants to have them as a wife in the house.

If this is not what any lady out there wants then they should avoid it and be decent. It is a mindset and it can be changed within a second by changing your mind. Events will always be there and all you have to do is to be decent and update your status especially if you have been walking naked. To find the upcoming events click adsasa.com. Will keep updating you!

3 comments:

  1. this is an eye opener.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Hi Anonymous,
    Sure it is. Thanks

    ReplyDelete
  3. i never know the use of adobe shadow until i saw this post. thank you for this! this is very helpful. tuniki damskie

    ReplyDelete