Women! Where Does Beauty Lie? – Physical Appearance or Character?

Confusion can be any where when it comes to choosing things and people we want in life. Bout there is one area which affects men and this women and relationships. Most men are blinded by what they see and forget that character matters a lot. Most men do not know where beauty lies and actually I got this when I read a post on social media of a guy who was asking whether beauty of a woman is in her pretty face or the body. Well, none of the two carries the beauty of a woman and this is where many men get confused. What they need to know is that character out lists them all.

 

Dressing is yet another thing which confuses men especially when we go to the entertainment industry in Kenya today. Many women are carried away by the western countries to doing everything they do. There are several occasions where we have seen pictures of our women in entertainment joints wearing really bad just to attract men. And this is another confusion. What happens is that men’s eyes will be caught into this and they will lust after what they see but despise it. And this does not reveal beauty according to many men.

This has resulted to many discussions while of the boosters have destroyed the physical appearance of some of our women completely that no man would like to be related with them.  All this is in search of beauty which we behold deep inside us.  If a woman respects her body and carries herself with respect then beauty is revealed. Others are just add-ons which accomplish her and make her perfect. I do not want to mean that coca cola bottle women and pretty faces are not women and they are useless. No, this is because we have seen some of them walk upright and maintain their dignity without compromising which is the right attitude.

A man who is after character is likely to have a better marriage life than the one who goes after lust and beauty.  The life of both may differ because the one who is going for a character may escape from sexual related diseases while the other one might be at risk. So, my advice to men who are single is, go for a character and then make her beautiful.