Do condoms give you the right to go sleeping with every woman or man? - Sex Control

It’s a moral Wednesday and we are going to give some light to some condom users. The reason why we are sharing on this topic is because we want to help you as you help us. This is by sharing our advice and what is on the world with you and all is going to be alright. We know you go to bars, restaurants some of the places we talk about here on adsasa.com. Some of the things you may have witnessed or observed is how sexy people have become and the night fashion nowadays is sex and nothing else. It has become a hobby kind of a thing to many people. This is not only affecting people who go to bars but others also. Go to schools and in homes and you are going to find sex issues.

But there is one thing about it all. It is created and never satisfied and this is what is causing everyone to want think sex, want sex and act sex. The issue is that thing is not solved since people attend to it half way even if it is with all their heart, body and spirit. If you go to many bars, restaurants, lounges, kiosks and such places. You can even go to a party somewhere and find them placed in a place where everyone can see them. Follow us below as we tell you what they do and what they do not do.

Note: we are not trying to tell you as a bar or restaurant owner not to provide the same for your clients.

Condoms have been introduced to us as one of the best way to protect us from sexually transmitted diseases but the greatest question which is ringing in my mind is, does it give you the right to go sleeping with everyone? This has not protected people enough instead it is increasing the desire to have sex because people are not satisfied. At times you wonder whether sex has become a basic need in some people’s lives or what is happening. All their talk is about sex and all their acts is all about sex. This has greatly affected marriages greatly while some people fear to get pregnant as well as to us pregnancy prevention drug.


Research has it that sex can only be satisfied when a man and a woman skin gets into contact but not in any other way. I read some post online which had a picture saying, ‘it doesn’t cost you anything, it cannot make you pregnant and it cannot cause you sickness and you can do it anytime and anywhere ‘Masturbation’.’ Now, this leaves you with a lot of questions because after all and counting it cheap it won’t satisfy you and it is just like using sex toys or something like that. Fantasy and use of condom has no different only that you are protecting yourself from some diseases which might affect you.

People who use condom leave the bed when they are hyped to get more of what the body was asking and this makes it clear that condoms do not satisfy anything. So, to those who still use condoms they do not more than fantasy which is a vain thing. This is the reason why many people walk everywhere with condoms in their pockets, handbags, wallet and in their body. The same thing is contributing to the way people are being raped and sodomized or even getting on innocent animals.

So, to everyone who uses condom to satisfy their hunger for sex this is never satisfied and you should actually stop using them. After all, sex was not created as a leisure tool for everyone but for the married women and men only. Otherwise men and women who are not married should keep off from it and wait for their time to come and enjoy sex fully. It is good for them to stop sharing the chewing gum with everyone because the sweetness and taste may fade away when they are still on their way.

Illicit Brew- Do you want to finish our people?

It has become the song of Kenyans and every now and then we have been hearing of it. Illicit Brew. This has become a killer in this generation and it is not only affecting our young men but old too. The most amazing thing is that government know about this, village elders knows, the headmen and the chief are very much aware of every of such activities which goes on day in day out in our villages. Leave a lone them but the drunkards are also aware of this killer drink, they have witnessed what it does but the question is, who bewitched us?
 

After seeing on the televisions, hearing from the radios, hearing from people and even witnessing our people continued to drink without worry. Is it a spirit or it is ignorance of people that they could go, buy and drink? What of the people who are selling this brew? The most amazing thing is that some of them know what they are selling to Kenyans and they don’t mind on what may happen there after.

Sometime back we used to hear of these guys who used to make brews at home and it never caused any harm as of today. What we are seeing and hearing is too much and the pain of seeing Kenyans die for a reason of ignorance and making money is too much for us to bear. The news of this brew ran throughout the week and it was spreading everywhere in the world bringing shame to our beautiful motherland that we are so much proud of. 

This issue has to be controlled by us as people who live with the brewers and those who drink. It is high time to expose this people and have them get another business to do that can benefit the society. Otherwise this thing should get a higher fine for anyone who is in such business and if someone is not qualified in doing this business the government should not license them. 

When Mister Mututho brought the law to control alcohol drinking it worked in some places while in others people still go on with drinking from as early as 6 a.m. This shows that the men in charge of these villages are not effective and they cannot make the alcohol bill effective. This is being less concerned on what is going on in the lives of people. 

Now, who do we blame? The government? Though the government has a role to play in this we cannot put the blame on them. It all goes to the people who brew this thing and the people who know of its existence. This is because they can easily control it and this is where the government can be involved and take control from there. Otherwise this killer brew will always be there to bring disgrace and pain in our country. We need to see people arise and join hands to fight this. These people are you, me and your neighbor. Let us rescue our generation.

PARTY TIME? _ How to Entertain your Guests

Looking after guests can be a very complicated issue sometimes. Awkward silence engulfs one’s mind and he starts wondering how to go about it which can often ruin a special occasion. However, one secret to keeping your guests happy - keep them entertained. Entertained guests are happy, content and lighten up the atmosphere.

 Everybody is entertained in different ways, and putting entertainment and guests into one special event can be difficult and stressful at times. Therefore this is the ultimate guide to the effortless and easy entertainment of your guests.

Use the largest space available to throw your party. The most important thing is to consider size of the venue. If you're having the party at your house, use the largest room. Large and airily spacious rooms make the place seem large and are much better than crammed tight spots.

If you're hosting an event indoors, make sure the venue is clean. Put some hours aside to get to work and make sure your venue is sparkling. Sweep; dust; vacuum; scrub; a clean environment makes an event much more pleasant. Bring party items into the room, like playing music, a table for the food and sit. Make sure there is enough air circulation by opening the curtains and the windows to set the right atmosphere.

Provide drinks and food that everybody would like - you don't want to work for a long menu and then have one or two people just picking at it. Be sure to ask your guests if they have any dietary restrictions or allergies when issuing invitations to the event, and adjust or add to your menu accordingly. It's best to choose the basic foods and then mix them according to your guests' tastes and dietary restrictions. Provide food and make sure is of good quality and is attractively presented, as great meals are one of the easiest ways to please your guests.

Play music, this is because it adds to the atmosphere and gets people in the right mood. Choose music that everyone will like - not extreme genres of musical taste. Hire a DJ or if you keep music on your computer, bring it into your entertaining room so people can choose what they want to hear. If you know your guests' musical tastes, then select some albums or tracks that you know a lot of them will like. If there's going to be dancing, make sure that there are some great tunes for dancing available. Try to create a playlist that suits your desired atmosphere.

Provide party games, and if you don't have your own, buy or borrow. Just remember to keep things simple, the simpler the party game is, the easier it is for people to get enthusiastic and competitive. Games that require groups of people and are fun, easy and energetic are the perfect type because they boost the competitive spirit.

Introduce your friends to each other, if you are entertaining groups of friends from different areas of your life. If you are inviting friends from work as well as friends you know, understand that you should make them all feel as comfortable as possible. Introduce each of them to each of the others, if guests aren't introduced to each other, a lot of them will restrict themselves to groups and the event will not be as pleasant. Mingle, introduce those who you think will get on with each other, and ensure that anybody who looks lonely is chatting to someone soon.

Thank your guests when they arrive and take their coats if applicable. Listen to what they have to say - try to use little indicators like "I see, that’s interesting, alright, fine" to indicate that you are paying attention and that your mind isn't wandering, which will seem rude. Pay a few minutes of personal attention to each and every guest; if there are too many people, then talk to groups so they'll feel included and happy. Prepare to mingle, talk, listen and party

Appreciate your guest as the party comes to an end. Show them you are thankful for sacrificing their time to join you and let them know you are pleased and you won’t mind inviting them next time.

Women! Where Does Beauty Lie? – Physical Appearance or Character?

Confusion can be any where when it comes to choosing things and people we want in life. Bout there is one area which affects men and this women and relationships. Most men are blinded by what they see and forget that character matters a lot. Most men do not know where beauty lies and actually I got this when I read a post on social media of a guy who was asking whether beauty of a woman is in her pretty face or the body. Well, none of the two carries the beauty of a woman and this is where many men get confused. What they need to know is that character out lists them all.

 

Dressing is yet another thing which confuses men especially when we go to the entertainment industry in Kenya today. Many women are carried away by the western countries to doing everything they do. There are several occasions where we have seen pictures of our women in entertainment joints wearing really bad just to attract men. And this is another confusion. What happens is that men’s eyes will be caught into this and they will lust after what they see but despise it. And this does not reveal beauty according to many men.

This has resulted to many discussions while of the boosters have destroyed the physical appearance of some of our women completely that no man would like to be related with them.  All this is in search of beauty which we behold deep inside us.  If a woman respects her body and carries herself with respect then beauty is revealed. Others are just add-ons which accomplish her and make her perfect. I do not want to mean that coca cola bottle women and pretty faces are not women and they are useless. No, this is because we have seen some of them walk upright and maintain their dignity without compromising which is the right attitude.

A man who is after character is likely to have a better marriage life than the one who goes after lust and beauty.  The life of both may differ because the one who is going for a character may escape from sexual related diseases while the other one might be at risk. So, my advice to men who are single is, go for a character and then make her beautiful.